F: How is your recent work schedule?
P: I just terminated my contract with my management, and changed to another type of contract. On the 18th, I will be starting a new film General of the Army with Andy On. I started discussing this film two years ago, the public says the incident (Raymond Lam) helped me, but in fact after the incident was exposed, the 5 films, idol drama, online games and skincare endorsements that I had accepted before were all gone. I was harmed miserably.
F: What about your love life? Have a new boyfriend yet?
P: No, I'm frightened to death!
F: Men frightened you to death?
P: I am frightened to death! I feel it's just too terrifying. One is the media, and the other is someone who I don't know why I put my whole heart into, my heart is shattered. I cannot completely love a person, I would rather not love.
F: In your relationship experiences, is it only Raymond Lam that hurt you?
P: I feel when loving a person, just should accept everything of him. Betrayal and Cheating I cannot accept. Among my past 4 boyfriends, I know just one of them betrayed me. I believed everything he said. To a man who just wants 1 wife and love 1 woman, I will not betray him, he is the one with greatest happiness. To a man who steals my heart, a woman like me can get terrifying.
F: You loved Raymond because he's a sweet talker?
P: Yes, correct, he's really is a sweet talker, and it is because of that I fell for it. When I think back to what happened, a person who had not been with you for too long and already calling you "wife", from the start, you would think, wow, is it because he loves me that much that he is like that? Later I realized, this is one of his habits.
F: How did you find out he was a cheater?
P: One reason was when he hides when he’s talking on the phone, he thought he did really well, but in fact he’s full of mistakes. Like for instance, he used work as an excuse, clearly it wasn't about work. In fact, I had high suspicions, but inside I still tell myself, I have to believe him.
F: When did you start to not believe him?
P: I saw things! Some things, when you see it, the truth is right in front of you, I cannot tell myself that I’m not being cheated. Pictures and SMS, a person who is a cheater has a lot and there will be a time where those things will be exposed. You are with him, there will be a mysterious phone call that comes in, his appearance and expression already betrayed him. It's not necessary for any more evidence. When there are such things, you will start becoming suspicious. You will start paying more attention to every step in the future, you will take his cell phone: "You said your free? Let me see your phone!" Sure enough, not long after looking through the phone, I see ambiguous SMS. I just didn't say it.
F: To you, is the opposite of love, hate?
P: Yes! I agree! I am a person that clearly separates love and hate. I am not a person who conceals a fault, I won't pretend to myself, nor can I pretend.
F: So those intimate photos are leaked by you?
P: I can swear on my entire family, I absolutely did not leak those photos to the Hong Kong magazines....Raymond Lam's fans, I feel he has more in HK. In Mainland, ha, I rarely see any. I want to get famous, we have been together for a period of time, I could have told the reporters long ago, am I right?
Someone by his side said I'm a prostitute
F: Said you were greedy for money, was it Raymond?
P: Yes, he said everyone around him told him that his girlfriend is a prostitute, just looking for money. The news said I scolded Raymond, but basically I never did. I just sent out news that this trash and nonsense person who leaked out the news should come forward, take out the evidence or stand in front of my face, do they have the guts to say it to me? I'll rip up their mouth!
F: That was said when you were still with him or after the break up?
P: After the break up, his (Raymond) side said that was the reason to the break up. He put the responsibility on me, said because of this that he suspected me and started a fight. But it is him that never personally mentioned it, I SMS him and he didn't respond.
F: What angered you most is because even Raymond believed you were this type of person?
P: Yes, I didn't know if he believed me or not, I really don't know. It is the people around him that said it, because for this reason he can leave me. Being with me for that long, you have this kind of suspicion, you can come ask me directly, I can suspect you too if you truly love me or not or even just acting. Because I feel I am the type, if I am here looking for money, I won't be just giving him clothes, I can give him a villa, give him a new sports car.
F: What business does your family do? Are you wealthy?
P: I came from Zheijiang in Hangzhou. Every family there does eyeglass business. In 1987, the local news reported before, my father took US$1 million out on the train with him and he was robbed $470,000. Later the robber was caught by the Public Security. My father, my grandfather and uncle are all in the eyeglass business before I was born. I am not a rich girl, just in good living standard. My family business was better before than it was now, but my father loves to gamble, over 10 years ago, he turned over the factory’s management to a relative. I went to South Africa myself for an eyeglass endorsement, the factory is much smaller than before.
F: Why does your father think you’re immature?
[Summary: Mavis said because once she's in love, she won't focus on school. When she was 16-18 years old, she studied in Canada and lied to her parents about having to study foreign language and about the required cost, so she can use that money to go out with her boyfriends.]
F: So once you’re in a relationship, you don't care about anything?
P: Yes, I won't even go to school, and inactive about work. When I was with Raymond, I didn't feel I was spending his money. First, I am a person that really wants face, second, I feel that given the condition in my family, it is not worthwhile for me to stick by others' lives. Finally, I am a person with strong self-esteem, this type of love, I feel it is unfair when discussed. My parents saw the news and knew that I spent the money I got from the photo book and the single I released. They didn't dare to ask me for money.
F: Have your parents met Raymond before?
P: Yes, in Hong Kong. My mother came to buy stuff in HK, Raymond treated them a meal, I think they had hot pot. My parents knew he was an artist, and took his CDs home with them. They had a pretty good impression on him, felt he was very filial. He is able to please the parents because he’s an actor.
F: Then have you met Raymond’s family?
P: I have, I seen his parents, younger sister and brother before. In Hong Kong.
F: What is your impression?
P: I’m not upset, just disappointed. This type of family, even if you do even better, there will still be nick picking going on. He the so-called precious son, like everyone needs to make up to their family. Is it worthwhile for me?
F: Is it because they thought your family business wasn’t big enough?
P: My father’s business and status can be found on the internet, I think they don’t know that and don’t need to do a search. They probably feel he (Raymond) should find a girl that is just as famous as he is. They feel he’s dragging me along behind him.
F: The public feels Raymond Lam helped you with your family and career after this incident. Right?
P: This incident has been a great impact on me. I want to be famous for real, I feel with my own name, starting out as a newcomer, for many years slowly through work and public events, people will start to know me little by little. After all, this way of getting famous, people will still be scolding at you, feel that I am a mean girl!
F: Why didn’t you just tell the truth?
P: Because it is not necessary, saying it out will just cause greater harm. With time, a thief can hide the first, second, third, fourth or fifth time, but can they hide forever? It is human nature, I feel if his personality and character is like that, it’s hard to change.
F: In Beijing, your circle of friends is all wealthy people?
P: Some female friends are, I played together with them in Beijing in the last so many years.
[Summary: FACE goes on asking why she wouldn’t have a new boyfriend given her wealthy circle of friends. Mavis said she’s always been faithful to relationships and does not have many friends of the opposite sex. Then she talks about the public saying she’s shooting Wong Jing’s CATIII film. She said it’s the biggest joke ever because the script is inspired by a university student. When she saw the news about it being a CATIII, she asks the interviewer will she accept that kind of film? She expressed there are too many misunderstanding and that Director Wong should come out to clarify.]
F: Because you are not that type of person?
P: The sexy pictures I had before, ‘sexy underwear’ that time was just because I was cheated by people into entering. People say I am not afraid to compensate 5 million dollars, that time I was young, and didn’t know anything. I cried as I was doing the photo shoot. That set of swimsuit photos were taken by the beach, because my ex-boyfriend is an advertisement director. I only did it because I believed in him. I don’t shoot these types of films! A few years back, I was shooting a Mainland TV drama, the assistant director said to me: “Little sister, let me embrace you, I have the authority to give you more screen time!” I immediately shouted sexual harassment. Then the next day, all of my scheduled scenes were cancelled, the writing below said: “Mavis Pan’s work attitude does not meet standards!” I won’t compromise with them, I don’t accept hidden rules. So, everyone has said in fact I am not suitable to be in this profession.
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